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life is a lot
somebody once told me that we should work to live. and not live to work. sounds great, i thought, meanwhile i was looking for 2 identical socks getting ready to work. but in which part of the world? it’s pretty condescending. like when somebody tells you ‘money is not everything’. of course it’s not. until… Read more
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handle with care
‘hi, i am Matt and we are here to pack your life’, he said. well, it was not exactly like that. but it sounded like that. it was 7am. three hours later my kitchen and my leaving room were gone. surrounded of boxes and bags of trash, i questioned my life with the help of… Read more
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together-ness
‘how are you?’. F. asked me. i guess it depends of the day. it also depends of the moment of the day. and my period. it might also be affected by the path of the stars. i opened co-star. ‘don’t eat pickles’. well noted. i guess this will solve my day. in between the good… Read more
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desexing ourselves
are you going to desex your dog?, D. asked me once. apparently it’s pretty common. and maybe that’s why dogs are different here. they don’t bark. there’s no dramas in the park. they even smile. did some research. 80% of dogs here are desex. by cutting the testosterone, you remove all the things that are… Read more
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am i the same girl?
you wake up in the morning. coffee, journal, planks. walking the dog in the park. being late to your 9.30 am. one day after another. and somehow, suddenly you realise your life has had drastic change. it was a random Saturday and i was still in bed when L. called me. ‘let’s go to Japan’,… Read more
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there was a will, but not a way
where there is a will, there is a way, they say. but sometimes things don’t go the way we expect. and it’s hard to accept. you wish this, you get that. like in sex and love. sometimes you want them to like you for your brain. but you just get night dates instead. when you… Read more